December 28, 2012 7:26 PM EST
There you go attributing 'wrong' to things that amoral in the first place. It's still going back to how you perceive it. Leaving the refrigerator open (purposely) is evil b/c it either stems from laziness or defiance. Purposely calling him a name that upsets him is evil b/c you're doing it out of the fact that you most likely enjoy watching him be angry. While these things might not such huge consequences as some other obviously evil things that does not exclude them from being evil. Much worse things have been done with the same intentions (Laziness, Defiance, Enjoying others suffering/discomfort)
But I shouldn't get myself into a huge discussion over silly things.