This was totally me not that long ago. No matter how I started, I always fell back on sneaking and bow using. I would justify it. So one day I decided to create the Ranger class of character. With that, he doesn't sneak to use his bow, its more of a utility for hunting and the occassional party starter. Then I switched to Two Handed, which is a huge adjustment from dagger. But I have to be honest, it was totally worth it. Now I almost never use the bow. I have even branched out into pure mage builds for a greater challenge.