Let's get a few things sorted out....

  • Well, well, well....

    It seems like there has been some shenanigans over in the Skyrim Art Group overnight. I got up and found that various threads have been deleted, permissions altered - and my Inbox is bursting open with messages about what has been going on.

    Generally, I prefer to keep Administration-type stuff out of the public arena, but since John Rose decided to copy no less than 90 members of the site into his message to me, then I have no alternative but to drag this into the open.

    I am the nicest and most easy going person you could wish to meet, both in real life and on the Internet. However, you will find that changes when people disrespect me or show a lack of basic courtesy. And it certainly changes when someone sends out a message that I am, and I quote, 'a liar'. 

    So, lets get a few things absolutely straight.

    The Skyrim Blog is 100% owned and operated by myself, in my own spare time and using my own money. It's not a democracy, and its not open to anyone to decide that they can make up their own rules. It seems that John Rose thought that he could appoint - or demote - whoever he wanted as an Administrator in the Skyrim Art Group. So he appointed dcgamer as an Admin, and demoted Narmis from being an Admin. Then, in a fit of pique, he decided to delete content added by Narmis, and a thread containing art work submitted by Charlie, Ponty, Mason and others.

    That is not acceptable. It doesn't matter that 'it doesn't say it in the rules'. If you are trusted with responsibility by the owner of a site, then it is basically courtesy to value peoples content, and to run any changes past the site owner first. I think pretty well everyone will agree with that (and it doesn't really matter if you don't, because I'm saying it!). So, as an example, when Bilal wanted to have Ponty as a co-host in the Skyrim Challenges Group, he had the courtesy to run it by me first. And, of course, being the friendly sort of chap I am, I was happy to concur.

    Sorry that I am having to spell this out in such detail. Probably very obvious and boring to most people, but clearly not to a few....

    So, here is what has now happened. I have removed John Rose and dcgamer as Admins of Skyrim Art, and indeed from the Group itself. Narmis has been promoted back to Host, and I'll be appointing someone else to co-host in due course. As a temporary measure, new memberships to that Group have been suspended. I'll open it back up when it settles down. Existing members can, of course, still upload their art, and post in threads.

    I have not, at this point, suspended John Rose and dcgamer from The Skyrim Blog. Why? Because I'm a fair-minded person and will give them the chance to be a member here. They are welcome to post here and use the site as normal, so long as they are sensible and behave according to the site guidelines. However, if they come on here and start mouthing off, or derailing threads, or using the PM system inappropriately (and, trust me., I can see from the 'back end' what people do on this site) then they will be banned from the site, and their email and IP address blocked from access.

    That's all I've got to say on this subject. There are going to be a few site changes coming soon, but lets allow this to settle down first...

Comments

34 Comments
  • Mason
    Mason   ·  November 14, 2012
    That random purple dildo is standing up so incredibly 'pert'...
    It looks like it's reading every word...
    ...it's freaking me out a little bit!
  • Mason
    Mason   ·  November 14, 2012
    LOL!!! John Rose was a right plonker!
    Blessing him with host-dom was like handing cicero a knife...
    The guy went on a bloodbath purge of the art group and pissed so many people off!! I love a bit of drama but it's messy when content gets unlaw...  more
  • Paul
    Paul   ·  November 14, 2012
    Ah this brings back a few memories 
    You know, it wasn't actually all that 'dreadful'. In some ways it was a defining moment in the evolution of the site - the point which a marker was laid down about how people were expected to behave here.
    Th...  more
  • Titan
    Titan   ·  November 14, 2012
    holy crap this takes me back this was 'admin-gate' it's sort of a testament too the people on this blog that such immaturity (disrespect) hasnt been seen since,
    man i had totally forgotten this whole thing good for a larf now though
  • Master Dread
    Master Dread   ·  November 14, 2012
    I remember a few of the older members of the blog telling me about this on chat. This must have been dreadful (no pun intended.)
  • Matt Feeney the New Guy
    Matt Feeney the New Guy   ·  November 14, 2012
    Boy, I missed some party, huh
  • Paul
    Paul   ·  April 13, 2012
    Yes its obviously unfortunate that they sent out the messages to all of their 'friends' on the site, thereby subjecting a whole bunch of people to unwanted negativity. 
    @Kynareth, I think - as always - you make a fair and balancing point, and someth...  more
  • Asverze
    Asverze   ·  April 13, 2012
    I entered the blog this morning and I saw "1 new" after my inbox. I thought "Nice, a pm for me", do I fall into this. I don't know much about this matter but imho you did the right thing Paul, especially after reading their (DCgamer's?) "answer". Always t...  more
  • Kynareth
    Kynareth   ·  April 12, 2012
    First off, I am sorry that this happened, Paul, and you most certainly do not deserve any censure, as you run a very fair, very positive website.
    My following comment does not excuse the behavior of the two members in question, yet I also wonder if ...  more
  • Titan
    Titan   ·  April 12, 2012
    Holy crap you lay off the site for a few days and BLAM! People start throwing their toys out of the pram , this is some craziness right here not too mention the disrespect to paul and what he does here, we have been blessed thus far too have such a layedb...  more